Everyone probably already knows what a struggle Andrew and I have gone through to start our family. We have been married for 8 1/2 years, and we started trying for a family almost 5 years ago with no luck. We were approved for adoption last November through LDS Family Services, and haven't heard anything on a baby for us through that process. We have had our share of trials with this, and we both have learned a lot from the Lord in asking him why this has to happen.
This past summer we made the decision to try a further step in fertility treatments and consulted with the Reproductive Care Center in Sandy. The cost of In-vitro Fertilization has kept us away from considering it as an option until now. I'm 29 years old, and I know that I would regret the decision to not try IVF at least once while in my twenties. I knew that we'd have a better chance at success with this treatment if I was younger with more eggs available. So we got the go ahead, and started the process of IVF at the beginning of August.
Honestly for me, I was soooo pessimistic about the whole thing. I learned to 'preserve' my feelings by not hoping anymore. So that was the theme for this new journey. As far as hormone injections, blood draws every other day, and ultrasounds every other day go.... it couldn't have gone better for me. I felt fine. On egg retrieval day they took 11 eggs, fertilized all of them using a newer technique called 'ICSI'. They grew all embryo's in the lab for 5 days, and on day 5 we had 6 good looking embryo's. We decided to transfer 2 embryo's on day 5 and the other 4 embryo's are frozen in the lab for later use when we are ready.
So after all of this, I had a positive pregnancy test. We waited until I was about 6 weeks in my pregnancy and went into the fertility clinic to verify fetal heart tones through another ultrasound. Just as soon as they did the ultrasound it was very obvious that there were two babies with little heart beats! We couldn't help but laugh :) I couldn't believe that all of this actually worked! I had heard lots of horror stories of people I know spending all of this money on fertility and it never worked. I guess now I know that everyone has their own story and their own journey in life.
Our faith has really been tested through all of this, and I know that without a doubt Heavenly Father has blessed us with these babies. I know that this is just the beginning of our journey, but I am so grateful to know that we have someone on our side through all of our trials in life. We have certain things to learn while on this earth, and this was one thing we needed to go through. For me, I've learned to be patient and that there is a time for everything.
Anyway.... So we had our first OBGYN appointment today. I'm almost 10 weeks, they did another ultrasound and we saw cute little 'gummy bears' moving around with their little hearts still kicking. My due date is May 13th, but since I'm having twins the average delivery date is usually between 34-36 weeks. So probably beginning/middle of April.
Our ultrasound today( 9wks5days) with two babies moving around. Not much of a profile, but still pretty cool to see two separate babies growing.
Two rice sized babies at 6 weeks
Day 5 Blastocyst ( the clump of cells on the right and bottom right turns into the baby)